March 11, 2008

What is love? One definition says, “Love is the feeling that you feel when you feel a feeling like you’ve never felt before.” If that is your definition of love, I can tell you, that kind of love will never lead you to a life-long marriage. The euphoric feelings are temporary. It is interesting that in Eph. 5:25 husbands are commanded to love their wives. If the intense feelings of love were permanent, why would God command a husband to love his wife?

The fact is, they are not permanent and love is not a feeling, but an attitude, with appropriate behavior. Love is the attitude which says, “I’m married to you, so what can I do to help you? Love is choosing to be kind, and supportive. Is that your attitude?

Today's A Growing Marriage Daily content has been written by Dr. Gary Chapman and is based on the book Dr. Gary Chapman On the Marriage You've Always Wanted by Dr. Gary Chapman. Published by Moody Publishers, copyright 2005. Used by permission.